I have always been guilty of speaking before I think. Not in a reckless way, not in a “this will end badly” way. More in a hopeful, optimistic way, where I trust the first word out of my mouth to know where it’s going.   It rarely does. My brain moves faster than my filter, and my mouth jumps in early.  My husband and I have been married a little over five years, which means he has now had ample time to study this pattern. When he asks me a question, I answer immediately, eve