If you line up my adult life in order, it looks a little busy on paper. There are chapters that lasted, one that ended far too soon, one that made sense only in context, and the one I am in now. As a result, I have been married four times. That tends to make people pause. Sometimes they do the math in their head. Sometimes they try to arrange their face into something neutral and land somewhere between curiosity and concern. I usually reassure them that it was not part of a p